#itsfunny in fact it’s quite hilarious how we believe Love to be purely from the heart, yet we include the mind in our decisions of engaging or seeking out Love, as if it already knows all the possibilities of all the specific roads that a particular situation with particular circumstances between 2 (or more) specific human beings :-/ hmmm… sounds a bit Ego-ish to me.
When we look at what we know… yes, love is crazy, yes love is illogical, love is irrational, it makes u insane, it drops an atom bomb on your current and stable human being paradigm, it hurts physically, emotionally, mentally and in spirit, Love my you uncharacteristically super-enthusiastic, love makes you push, it makes you learn, it inspires you, makes u ignorant, makes u lie, confess, murder, conquer, achieve, succeed, change religions or begin to pray, brainwashes you, makes u think outside of the box, makes u lie to yourself, want to kill yourself, makes excuses, do things u’ve never done, love gives you a taste of bliss, love is heaven, love is truth, love is spirit, love is God, overall love is psychotic behavior inducing experience … or at least brings out schizophrenic tendencies :-s lol. All true, however as I mentioned before, this is what we look at when we look at what we know… the past.
I would confidently suggest that inclusion of the minds input in matters of the heart has come a
bout due to the influencing factors and imposed limitations placed on the natural variables within any given event or situation. What I’m an referring to is ‘Love in the system’
Similarly to how the man-made and enforced governing system, which includes economic, legal, health, labour, etc, places an extremely
huge amount of boundaries on human lives to the point where it is acceptable for pure n innocent, sin-free beautiful newly born human babies to live their entire experience of this life on the streets and in the gutters, without a fair go or even any information whatsoever about what this thing called life is, what it means to be a human being, what exactly are the things that were here when we got here, how exactly we’ve come to be, and surely many more of life’s most necessary answers or rather most accurate guess K cos really… that’s all that it would be, that’s all it is for the lucky human babies born into better and more survivable environments conducive to staying alive… and the other numerous bonuses made available to those who live lucky longer (:-/ come to think of it, it seems a lot like when turtles have dozens a little babies and they have to fend for themselves immediately from birth and other the lucky survive, hmmm and we’re so different from animals aren’t we?). All that it would be is our best guess as parents, beings, as a species, of what the actual truth is, our version of it.
The grotesque abuse of our human rights in the form of the systems insulting and demeaning laws n rules and government sanctioned experiences is at a degree that would suggest that it, the system, is the ultimate unquestionable Truth :-/ we don’t have to go through the long list of concerns, complaints and cons which fill each of our daily lives which refuse us entry and push us away from discovering or simply exploring our own God-given existence… anyway, now go out and show how you create Pure Love made in the blissful bowels of the Heart uninfluenced and unaffected by the mind :-s
The truth is that in today’s society, as we are so consciously and constantly on guard, as intelligently instructed so by the mind, Love cannot purely exist without the mind… so to be aware, so to be careful, so to protect oneself, so to protect another, so to experience our own mental creation of what we believe love to “supposed to be” like. The Mind is to Love what the system and government are to free human beings… an obstruction K
It’s funny, I was thinking earlier about what it could be like to simply develop feelings and/or emotional and spiritual connection with another person(s) if we never had to tell them how you felt :-/ only acting upon it from what we sense and also what we learn to know about the nature of the relationship and the interactions which follow… I asked myself “why one would not verbally express ones love to another? What is the benefit?”, I answered by brainstorming and troubleshooting this concept within myself, with thoughts including “sitting back and savoring each most beautiful moment of this love emotion that I am blessed with feeling”, “limiting the flow of a developing human connection and its intimacy by all of a sudden having to inaccurately and uncertainly define it and declare what exactly it is without even really knowing what it truly is or possibly could become”, “our definitions and self-imposed conditions which we arrogantly call ‘lessons’ have all been calculated on past experiences, that of others as well as our own, which is also where the visions of our preferred love scenario comes from :-/ to remind you… it comes from past failures at attempting pure Love in an enslaving system which conditions us to place mental stipulations and guidelines on the most ultimate of emotional human experiences that has consistently and statistically proven to fail and/or cause extremely negative and evil outbursts and behaviors such as lying, stealing, hiding, jealousy, degradation, ignorance, insanity, suspicion, insult, embarrassment, beating, obsession, stalking, heart-break, kidnap, slavery, humiliation, rape, torture, murder, revenge, abuse, sexual addiction, loneliness, manipulation, blackmail, suicide, self-destruction, self-glorification, depression, lowered self-esteem, self-worth, self-confidence, self-discipline, delusion, dictatorship, personality, disorders, genocide and then some more, worst of all this mentally created picture, born in the mind, of what we think Love is and should be is taking many, if not, most of us even further from the purity that is True Love” K ja, those were some of my thoughts on verbally having to state “I love you” and wanting control over our Love journey J any responses that may arise at this point which begin with a “but what about…” come from fear or the Ego K I encourage you to ponder this for yourself… as the mind so proficiently does :-/
In nature and so the universe, we have discovered and so long have observed always and all around us exists a natural flow of things… a universal flow. This is evident in behavior, movements, direction, design, interactions and in the calculations of structures, beings and particles from the unimaginably massive (massive is a shitty description but I cannot even imagine a more accurate and justifiable term) galaxies and all its 100s of billion stars and all their orbiting planets to the near non-existent invisible, atoms, electrons and bosons. This universal flow exhibits itself through instincts, senses, feelings and understandings aligned to the will of this flow. It’s the uniformity in a flock of birds and in schools of fish, it’s the extinction of species and the birth of others, it’s the wind, the water, it’s the hibernation of the bears, it flows through bees pollinating flowers, it’s in the spiral of the milky way and the replication of DNA, it’s the shape of waves, it’s the direction of hurricanes, it’s in your voice when she inspires you and it’s in her selfless comfort when u’re humbly defeated as she admires you, its intuition, its courageous, it disregards bounds, it breaks barriers, it evolves, its develops, it goes wherever it wills to flow… to whatever outcome… to whatever destination and beyond… in whichever medium, course, route or form, the universal flow proceeds whether you foresee to be good or bad… ITS IS NOT GOVERNED BY ANYTHING BUT ITS PURPOSE OF EACH MOMENT OF ITS EXISTENCE, which is unknowable to us, most of all ITS NOT FUCKING GOVERNED BY YOU… a puny human being K I believe it is fair to assume that most of us would agree, except the self-absorbed naysayers of course, that the universal flow can be called ‘Gods will’ or ‘the will of the Gods’ or for the agnostic ‘stuff happening allot with the same tendencies ’ lol I could believe that this is the flow of Love… boundless, condition less, limitless, unstoppable, unknowing, undeniable, ungoverned, fearless, passionate, faithful, corrective, non-systematic, pure purposefully inspired Love J from the heart of all things, absent further analysis or input from the mind, where the delusions of ego and fear are born. Am I naive to want to believe the obvious signs which show that Love flows alongside or rather… as one with the flow of the universe :-/ the flow of Gods will? Hmmm… perhaps, but I sure don’t have the balls to state that any choice that I have so apparently concluded from a limited 29 year experience and knowledge filled life, is um… the right thing to do K and then simply just move on… LMFAO!!
Love in a controlled environment or strategy, with a predetermined outcome and pathway by those who wish to create this love, is not Love in its pure form, yes I am sure we do experience a kind of love and yes , oh how magnificent it can be… this amazing love in the system and influenced by the mind. A kind of love is cool but fuck cool K I want natural, real, pure, true, spiritual, free Love, that does not even consider fear of failure or harm, does not even consider the individual self and how many points he, she or they have in the relationship nor even a thought about how one has more relationship chores than the other or any other human relationship muck that we have produced in the last few thousand years since Man has declared himself of a higher value than other men, enough to rule and use them for his own self gain. How can love exist purely with so much suffering around? We’re even so blind as to have sayings such as “to love is to suffer” as clichés, this does not seem right to me K This does not seem even remotely close to what my limited imagination and open heart perceive the magnitude of life’s greatest experience to be. Nah I’m not gonna give up on true love that easily, come on… you only Yolo once, right?
Imagine Love in the absence of other ppls opinions or your regard for them. Imagine Love without judgment and desire to be victorious. Imagine love with a simply purpose of doing your absolute best to assist in allowing the object of your affection to experience every living moment in as joyous and harmonious of a manner as what’s possible in that moment… and nothing else… no time frames… no titles… no converting nor unnatural changing… no attachments and no expectations, pure natural Love expressed moment by moment in activity or rest, in pleasure or prayer… directly from the heart and absent complications of the programmed mind.
I think I shall try Love according to my best attempt at being natural in a manner mimicking that of the frequency of the universe, to Love with the flow Now where the hell would I happen to come across a like-hearted person to attempt this with and without getting arrested and scrutinized or worse :-S I guess I’ll just go with it
…I hope the that the ultimacy of love is expressed in orgies, lol fingers crossed
The Milky way and Andromeda: Love without limits
Previous studies have suggested that our galaxy is set to crash into neighbor Andromeda Galaxy in 3 – 4 billion years, and that this will be the first time such a collision has taken place. However, in the new study, accepted for publication in the journal Astronomy and Astrophysics (arXiv.org version), Dr Zhao’s team proposes a very different idea that the two galaxies collided once before, some 10 billion years ago. Remarkably, this would explain the observed structure of the galaxies and their satellites, something that has been difficult to account for until now. The Milky Way is part of a group of galaxies called the Local Group. Cosmologists believe that most of the mass of the group is invisible, made of so-called dark matter. They suggest that across the whole Universe, this matter outweighs ‘normal’ matter by a factor of five. The dark matter in both Andromeda and the Milky Way then makes the gravitational pull between the galaxies strong enough to overcome the expansion of the cosmos, so that they are now moving towards each other at around 100 km per second, heading for a collision 3 billion years in the future. But this model is based on the conventional model of gravity and struggles to explain some properties of the galaxies we see around us. Dr Zhao and his colleagues argue that at present the only way to successfully predict the total gravitational pull of any galaxy or small galaxy group, before measuring the motion of stars and gas in it, is to make use of a model first proposed by Prof Mordehai Milgrom of the Weizmann Institute in Israel in 1983. This theory, named Modified Newtonian Dynamics (MOND), describes how gravity behaves differently on the largest scales, diverging from the predictions made by Newton and Einstein. The team has for the first time used MOND to calculate the motion of Local Group galaxies. Their work suggests that the Milky Way and Andromeda had a close encounter about 10 billion years ago. If gravity conforms to the conventional model on the largest scales then taking into account the supposed additional pull of dark matter, the two galaxies would have merged.
“Dark matter would work like honey: in a close encounter, the Milky Way and Andromeda would get stuck together, figuratively speaking”, explained senior author Prof Pavel Kroupa from Bonn University. “But if Milgrom’s theory is right, then there are no dark particles and the two large galaxies could have simply passed each other thereby drawing matter from each other into long thin tidal arms,” added co-author Dr Benoit Famaey from the Observatoire Astronomique de Strasbourg. In the new model, the Milky Way and Andromeda are still going to crash into each other again in the next few billion years, but it will feel like ‘deja vu‘. “If we are right, the history of the cosmos will have to be rewritten from scratch,” Prof Kroupa concluded.